Anyone who expected answers to all the pseudo-scientific questions was probably missing the point of LOST the entire time. There, I said it. Now, allow me to do the one thing LOST never set out to do: explain.
Much like “Twin Peaks,” LOST mashed a lot of genres together. David Lynch seemingly set out to make a really dark, supernatural freak-fest dressed up as a soap opera, and ultimately the resolution (and entire second season) was extremely disappointing. LOST was a drama about interpersonal relationships, choices, actions, love and death (a soap opera) dressed up as a paranormal, mad-scientist weirdo-parade. The reason “Twin Peaks” failed is because it lost its heart in its second act. The superficial mask of humanity simply didn’t remain intact, and it was difficult to care about the characters anymore. LOST kept its heart in the right place. The rest doesn’t really matter.
Maybe the way you feel about the show’s resolution comes down to the kind of “man” you are (women, please excuse the reduction for the sake of reference). Are you a man of science, or a man of faith? Regardless of what LOST meant by “faith,” I don’t mean it in the Judeo-Christian sense. What I mean is: what matters to you — logistics or humanity?
Did you care about many of these characters? Did you really care about them? Their back-stories were rich and complex. The acting was often top-notch, and the emotion was often very real for viewers (and apparently for the cast, as well). The polar bear, the hatch and the three-toed statue were devices to draw us in. The mysteries are what keep us watching, not what we are rewarded with in the end. The show was always at its best when we were left in the dark. Answers could only be disappointing. “Twin Peaks” is as good an example of this as any.
LOST left us with a lot more than answers, though. It brought something special to television viewers who demanded more from the medium than “Slut Town” and “American’s Next Top Grilled Cheese Sandwich” (ed. note: YUM!). The true test of an important, timeless show is its contribution to enriching culture. When a taxi cab zips by while it’s receipt is still printing, you’ll remember the black smoke. As you approach the check-out counter at the supermarket, you’ll think of the button.
To faithful viewers of the show, think of your favorite character on LOST, and then try to forget that character. Try to imagine a world in which that character never existed. Depending on whom you pick, it might seem impossible, because a lot of the characters don’t really seem all that fictional. I don’t personally want to live in a world — or a flash-sideways — where Sawyer, Hurley and Charlie don’t exist. I care about those characters. More importantly, I have friends and loved ones — old and new — who feel the same way.
LOST was essentially about a shared experience: the experience of crash landing on a weird island, and learning to live together in the hopes of eventual rescue. Watching the show was the same: the shared experience of watching people crash land on a weird island, while trying to understand what was happening in the hopes of resolution. Not everyone on the island lived long enough to escape, and not all of us felt satisfied with the show’s resolution, but we did it together without having to watch “American Idol.”
The show’s finale made no attempt to hide the fact that LOST is (and always has been) about LOVE. It’s about the people in your life whom you’ve come to care for, and whom you’d risk your life to protect. That’s what life is about, too. In the end, the polar bears and hatches and buttons and three-toed statues in life don’t really matter.
Eric (iamtheeric) is a semi-professional human being who likes to take photographs, make music and go bowling. Read more from him at http://iamtheeric.wordpress.com/


thanks for re-posting this SCFOM! i’m honored to be a guest-contributor.
as an addendum, i’d like to add that although i loved the show and the finale, in my real life i am as much a man of science (me and evolution are BFF), as i am a man of faith (that people can treat each other well and live good lives without the fear of hell or the anticipation of heavenly reward).
I still think the ending was retarded.
How LOST should have ended: